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writes: Two months ago while doing my daily walking exercise I saw a man standing in a corner with his dog and he smiled and said hello, I said hello and we and my daughter continued walking and on our second round we bumped into him and the dog barked at us and he called us and asked us to touch the dog and talk to the dog, we did and now every day when we walk we bump into him and the dog he unleashes the dog and the dog runs to us and gives us a kiss, every time we meet we chat for 10 to 15 minutes.The other day I bumped into him alone and the dog came running to me and gave me a kiss and he told me the dog gets excited when they see us, I have started to like this man and he has made sure that I know he is single, I'm a 46 year old widowed lady, do you think he likes me too? I would like to ask him out but am too scared to do so, now I have not seen him for 14 days today, he works long hours he told me, I am thinking of writing him a note. He told me where he lives, turned out he lives close to where we live asking if everything is okay since I have not seen him for 2 weeks, usually I see him every second day do you think he will appreciate that I care when I dont see him? please help Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Teacake +, writes (14 November 2008):
Men hate notes. Women love writing notes. Men have told me they rather talk face to face than have a note.
When you see him next just offer your phone number and tell him to call if he might want to go out sometime. Doing that helps give you confidence. From my experience with giving men notes, they tend to think you are crazy. Good luck.
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