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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:My GF dumped 3 weeks ago me for reasons Which I am not sure about. She gave reasons of long distance relationship(past 6 months) and different thinking. I tried to sort out the issues but had no luck. we were in relationship for more than 5 years. Last night I heard she has new guy in her life. Now I feel that he could be real reason for dumping me. Whatever the reasons, I feel all shattered and stabbed from the person whom I loved and trusted a lot. I decided to move on. Her birthday is on 6th oct. Now the question is Should I wish her?I just want to be little civil nothing more. I dont want her back or expects anything from her. Is wishing her right thing to do?
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reader, Cccc  +, writes (5 October 2010):
 Yes you can.
Dont stretch it out LOOOONG and dont mention feelings.
Just say Hey "NAME" Hope you have an awesome day!"
In my opinion.
Youre pretty mature about the whole thing for just 3 weeks...But youre handling it well.
Same happened to me accept its almost my birthday . .
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2010): Yes. Sounds like you're the grownup one. It's civil (as you say), and appropriate, as you were in a relationship with her so recently. You don't have to do it next year if you don't think it's appropriate.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2010): Well, my parents got divorced a long time ago, but this year on her birthday he called my mom and wished her a happy birthday, she thought it was weird. They didnt leave on very good terms.
So, it depends. Did you two leave the relationship in a bad way, or did you break up mutually and are still friends. Do you still love her? How do you think she will react? Answer these questions and hopefully it will help you. Good luck! :]
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (2 October 2010):
 Well answer yourself this, will it make you feel worse if she doesnt reply? If it wont then yes carry on and wish her a happy birthday, but dont if it is going to hurt you more.
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