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writes:There is this boy, and he lives pretty far away. I reallly realllly like him.. and i know we could never have a relationship now because im a bit young for a long-distance relationship. but herein lies my problem: he and this girl dated before, [she and him also lived pretty far away from each other] and im not sure why they broke up, but they are still very friendly with each other. i think they may have broken up because of he distance or because her parents didnt approve of her dating. what im wondering if it is that i should pursue or should i leave him alone and let the other girl have him? I dont even know if this girl wants to date him again, but im afraid he still likes her and it would useless. or do you think i should go for it because just because he may still like this girl doesnt mean he wont ever like any other girl?
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx  +, writes (5 March 2007):
 I think they must have split up for a reason so why not try and see if you can make it work with him Once you get chatting, you can find out the details, like why they split and whether there's still anything going on or likely to happen in the future.
However, if you think the long distance thing will be a problem, be careful before you jump in. If it didn't work out with someone else, it's unlikely to work with you either and, as you say, you're way too young for all that.
You need a guy who's there for you: there must be decent guys who live near by, why have someone you'll never get to see? Whatever you decide, I hope it works out.
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2007): well if you like him try and tell him how you feel or ask him out omly because it did not work with his ex doesnt mean it will not work with you good luck!!!!!!!!!
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