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writes:HEy i really need help well i've liked this guy now not for too long as i never really realised that i did but alot of sutff has happened.he came over other night i had a little gathering we were there we held hands like magic it was mental i didn't intend it to happen it just did he was touching the pendant i wear saying it was really pretty saying about my rings as well....then in the morning he was saying he wants to meet my dad and stuff and there was a heart shape in the sky and he said look its ours say its ours i was like um ok he was like quick before it goes so i was like its ours he said thank you.so i decided to tell him how i felt now my friend had told him before he said im a wicked girl he can see himself being with me in the future but i never knew where i stood so i decided to message him but now in response to it i'm still a bit lost i wonder if you guys can help me.A(me)02 September at 21:31 Hey Jamie i've been working up the courage to say this i think you already know but i feel better in myself if i tell you.well basically i like you... like more than just friendsi know you aren't looking for something atm and that's cool i just felt i needed to tell you for my own piece of mind,if you feel it's better to be friends that's fine too i just want to know where i stand i don't mind either way i just really needed to tell you A(me) J(him) 02 September at 23:11 Heya.. It means alot to me that you told me personally. As you said im nt redy 4 nefin atm. Im kinda goin thru a bad spot in my life. Its all slowly gettin betta buh i cnt risk da progress ive made wiv openin up my heart to sum1 else. I wuld onli end up hurtin them aswell as myself. I reli like bein friends wiv u, i dno wa da future will bring, buh i fink ur a special girl who deserves alot. I hope this dusnt change anyting between us..j(him) x. A.(me) 02 September at 23:20 hey no course it don't change anything well i hope it don't lol.i feel better for knowing, i think your a special guy too :) in your own way lol and you deserve alot too.i'm quite shy about my feelings like so you know took me a while but thanks.A(me) J(him) 02 September at 23:22 :) It defo wont change anyfin. I understand da im kinda same lol.Im glad we spoke bow dis..see ya soon xx can anyone help me with what he means?we've known eachother for many years since primary school and always been friends so it's a good friendship but i feel it could be so much more but now i'm not sure whether he sees it like that...i hope you can help me and whenever we are together at a gathering or anything something always happens with us we're always close and stuff.hope you can helpThank you :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks guys!
and women 40 years old i am not throwing myself at him i don't do that
i guess i got the answer and i'm not wanting to hear anything i'm wanting the truth and i've got it so thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2009): Don't try too hard to make something happen. Fate is the best player a this game so if somethings going to happen it'll happen, but if not then it won't, but at least you've got a good friend if nothing else.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2009): First off, you have a male friend who likes to communicate his feelings clearly, and this is great!
BUT....... he's just not that into you.
He's a man. If he wanted more you can be sure he'd have read the signs by now and taken up what was on offer.
Sorry. I know it's not what you are wanting to hear but it's the truth.
Don't hold out any hope of things suddenly picking up and turning into a grand romance.
You've known each other for so long, he will just see you as a mate.
He's let you down gently but he enjoys the attention. Don't let him make any kind of fool of you. Don't make an ass of yourself by throwing yourself at him.
If there was to be any future in this it would probably be best to play it completely cool. Men love the chase. You don't want to make yourself too available or be too keen. There's no challenge in it for him then.
Bye! Woman aged 40. UK
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