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writes:Me and my boyfriend have been exploring each others bodies and unrolling condoms.We are now ready to start having full intercourse for the 1st time.I really want to please him so I was wondering if I should go vocal regardless-or wait and see how things go as we get used to having sex?
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (12 August 2011):
 I suggest you focus on your own pleasure, and not his. He'll feel good enough ok? Don't worry about him. Focus on YOU, and first time sex is usually a much worse experience for the woman than the man. YOU need to be looked after, pampered, and taken care of. Focus on pleasing him once you've figured out how he can please you first. There's no haste, you'll have many opportunities to make him feel great, but guys are truly simple in this... they get stimulation and feel great at almost anything. Women are the complicated ones, so focus on YOURSELF, and once you start feeling good he'll feel better too. It's true! Because if you start feeling good you'll be more comfortable with moving around, and often if not always, what gives the woman pleasure in intercourse also pleases the man.
In other words, to make him feel great, first make sure you feel great.
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reader, sammy1986 +, writes (12 August 2011):
things happen when there ready don,t rush into sex to soon when it happens i will happen naturally
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2011): i suggest you just wait and see how things go, if you are both ready and wiling then it will happen in its own time, you do not want to rush things, do not set a certain date to do it, just when you two are together, let things go just enjoy
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