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*ash18
writes:My boy friend is in prison and I'm in love with this boy he says he loves me. He always says it even if I dont, the thing is I want 2 trust him but its like I cant, my heart wont let me.. guess Im too scared too get hurt.. The question is should I wait or is it stupid to waste my time on someone that wont change?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2010): Set a time limit, and be prepared to bolt if he fails to meet it. Too many women wait too long for guys who promise they'll change, but don't.
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reader, amazinglove1  +, writes (12 December 2010):
i think u should wait for him and always believe that people could change. i think that you should still keep your gaurd up though so you protect your emotions from being hurt because he seems like a guy that can be capable of that. but if you never give it a shot you'll mever know what things could end out like.
can u please answer my most recent question please?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2010): i think you should wait if thats what you promised him. i cant gaurentee it will work out in the long run, but you are in a relationship with him, your going to change your mind when he gets out because your going to be the first person he thinks about finding when he gets out. youll regret it if you cheat on him. i wouldnt leave him if he didnt do anything to mistreat you except go get locked up. all he does in there is think about you, thats what most girls want a guy to do when their gone. waiting on someone is hard but you have to get past the middle part where you start doubting you want to. you should atleast stand beside him till he gets out, and hold to your word assuming youve told him youd wait. i would sincerly write him and talk about the things that bother you and you guys can spend his sentence working on communication threw letters or something, its like a long distance relationship kinda
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