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writes: Right now I am so confused. I had this boyfriend for about 11 months. Everything was good till he start becoming friends with this other girl. He recently broke up with me because we were arguing to much. He use to tell me that he loved me so much and he would never break my heart or date anyone else. I loved him back. We still love each other, and he says he's not gonna date anyone else but this girl told my friend that they were dating for about a week now. And I don't know who's lying, I don't know who's trying to cover it up. I want to talk to the girl, but I don't know if she'll really tell me what's going on. He claims that he doesn't like her and he doesn't want to go out with her. I don't wanna lose him to this girl either, I love him to much to do that. But I'm so confused that I don't even know what to do anymore. Should I just try to win him back or leave him alone?
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reader, StarNews +, writes (28 March 2006):
 If he truly loved you, he would be with you right now, and you would not feel any doubt about his love for you.
There is a good chance he is seeing this other girl. He isnt being honest about it, because guys do not like confrontation.
If you wait for him, and he does come back, you will realize you were second best to someone else. Keep telling yourself that you are better than that, and you deserve to be #1 in someone's life. since you are no longer together, its best to let it go.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2006): If you love someone you do anything and everything to be with them ... i dont believe talking to the girl is a good idea and i also dont think it will help you in anyway.
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