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writes: My fiancee and i got in a Very big fight, basically i wasnt treating her the right way and she feels like she doesnt know who i am anymore, she moved from arizona to georgia back home to stay with her parents and i went on a deployment with the Marines, i would email her everyday and she told me i was getting on her nerves, i dont want to upset her, but i want her to notice the great person i have become while i was away from her, i feel like if i continue to talk to her she will never forget the old person i was and will always remember that person, should i am give her space? it is so hard, because at the same time i dont want her to move on away from me completly when i am gone, i dont know what to do. i love her so much!
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reader, LonleyBoy1986  +, writes (17 June 2008):
I feel your pain myself. My girlfriend recently broke up with me after 2 years because of issues I have. Now I've sorted them out and it's so so hard not to try and be around her all the time, to show her you are different, I know it is.
Try giving her some space though, see if she misses you. I left my ex alone for just a week, and next time she saw me she was different, she hugged me so tight and told me she loved me. I actually feel a little bit of hope right now and I'm sure you could as well. Try letting her come to you if she wants to. I know it's hard but it really seems to be the best way.
Good luck.
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reader, layinah  +, writes (16 June 2008):
i think u should giv her some space but dont blank her altogether.i fink she needs time to sort out her head and choose wot she wants.tell her u love her and miss her and keep the doors of comunication open.hope that helps.
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reader, supermum +, writes (14 June 2008):
 unfortunately, this is your fault. i am glad to hear that you hae changed your ways, but maybe you should give your ex some space and try to find someone new to practise your new found skills on....
i hope it goes okay for you sweetie
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