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30-35,
*earbear
writes:Ok, please be kind.. After being single for a whole year or so, i want to get back with my ex boyfriend now, more than ever, simply because i'm fed up of being single and i don't see new guys approaching me or me approaching them anytime soon because no one has really caught my eye and it's not like i'll want him because no one else is interested. I genuinely want my ex more than anyone else i know, despite the fact he can be bigheaded, annoying and cocky, i do love everything about him and wouldn't dream of wanting to change any of his bad qualities because theyre what makes him the guy i love and want to be with.Now, back to my ex..problem is, he's a bit depressed because his girlfriend cheated on him and i think he wants to get back with her however i only heard about this after he was flirting with me a week or so ago and asked me if i had a boyfriend and trying not to sound like a loser who's been single since he broke up with me, i lied and said i did, whether or not he believed it, i don't know. I'm not sure whether i should regret lying or not..probably so. I know you may be thinking he was just flirting with me cos he just wants to replace her and i know it sounds bad but i wouldn't even mind that-anything to be with him again.. if i could go back and relive every moment we had together it would be amazing.Every single time he's single, i just want to be with him and cuddle up to him like we were before because i miss being so close with him. I see him everyday usually and whenever he's around me i can't stop thinking about him although i never talk to him unless i feel the need or he talks to me, simply because i feel i'm not worth speaking to. When he's sad, like at the moment-I think to myself, 'great, he's single! I don't need to feel jealous anymore' and ' i wonder if we'll ever get close now he's not taken'. Then i end up disappointed because i hear him and he's girlfriend have sorted their differences or worse, he's found himself another girlfriend.But this time, i don't want to let that happen and i want him to be mine again. What are your thoughts and suggestions on this. Should i give up and find another bloke as its been over a year? Should i try my hardest to make him mine cos i obviously love him too much to ever let him go?You tell me..i'm hopeless.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2009): ok wow you must be in a tight decision ,
ok so you are single and want to get back with him well my of view is getting back with while he has just broken up with his previous girlfriend would seem to be a bit desperate let your ex get over it , comfort him for a while ask him out for a drink you no to get things going with you too and once you are with him think to yourself do i feel the same way i did before i was with him has the love gone or hasnt it , your love could be anyway take some time girl enjoy yourself you never no what comes around . advice girl enjoy yourself dont just put your mind to that one guy there more out there and proberlY better ones . x x x
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