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writes:I work at the front desk of a hotel and about a year ago a guest asked me out to dinner. Even though I found him incredibly attractive I had to say no as I was in a relationship. I have thought about him quite often since then and I always check to see if his name is on the reservations list when I'm at work. Well, his name did show up a few weeks ago and when i saw it I was so happy my heart skipped a beat and I got butterflies in my stomach. After I checked him in we chatted for a bit and HE brought up asking me to dinner last year which made me fall head over heels for him because I didn't think he'd remember. He gave me his phone number on a note asking me out again. We didn't actually go out but we did text each other quite a bit and eventually it led to me going up to his hotel room on my break. We had an amazing make out session without going all the way because I had to get back to work, unfortunately, but we said good night and he knew I would be free the next day. The problem is that that was almost two weeks ago and I have not heard anything from him since I left his room. I text messaged him twice but haven't gotten any response. I felt an amazing connection with him and I was sure he felt it too. I'm trying to convince myself that he lost his phone but.......is it possible that our kissing meant a lot less to him than to me? Should I try to forget our little "fling" or just give him a little more time? I really can't understand why he has yet to respond and I know I really shouldn't hound him with anymore texts. Help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2010): Thank you for you responses. Not the answers I wanted to hear but what I was expecting. It's been two weeks now exactly and he sent me a message this morning. Apparently he left his charger at the hotel and had trouble finding a replacement. That may not be 100% true but it still makes me feel 100% better. Thanks again.
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (27 August 2010):
 Is it possible that your kissing meant less to him than you?
Yup, and from the sound of things, that's the case here.
Should you try to forget about it or give him more time?
I'd forget about it. You'll likely be waiting another year. What do you know about him? My guess is traveling salesman. If that's the case, that means he's always on the road. He found you attractive and asked you out. He's not returning your texts because either he got/didn't get what he wanted or knows he won't be back for a long time so continuing anything with you is pointless. If he comes back to stay at your hotel again, he'll likely be looking for another hook up, but nothing more.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2010): I am sorry, but yes, the kissing meant a lot less to him :( What do you know about him? How much does he know about you? He could be married with children and have sexual liasons at several hotels, some traveling salesmen are like that :(
If you want a guy to like you, get to know his mind, not his body.
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