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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I'm 20 years old, and I've only been in one relationship. I was with a beautiful kind boy named Y. We met online, and we were long distance. It was very difficult, but it got even more tough with my first year of college. I was busy living the moment, and I flirted around and ended up experimenting with someone. MY bf found out, and we broke up. We got back together a few months later, but things weren't the same, so he broke up with me again. We end up not talking for 4 months, and he blocked me from facebook. At that time, he forgot to delete one of my other accounts still showing as his friend on fb. So when i logged in, i noticed he was with someone. Then a few months later, I checked again, and it said he was single. So I decided to delete that account and stop "spying" on my ex. On mother's day I messaged his mom. After that, she doesn't reply, BUT he ends up unblocking me, and adding my friends again, but not adding me. I don't understand. I end up messaging him, and the first thing that comes out of his mouth is, "hey, we are not friends, what has happened before has happened, but you can message me but i won't necessarily reply in a timely manner" "and then he tells me how good his family and niece is doing. So i told him i understand, and we had a short good conversation about what has been going on and stuff.This is the part i need advice with. I'm currently dating someone online, also long distance. I love him so much, but he's not as emotional as my ex. That is why i love my ex so much, he's in touch with his emotions. I think my ex still has feelings for me. What should I do? Should I try to see if i could fix things with my ex ( i still have his letters and his "heart" that he asked me to keep", or should i just move on and continue my relationship with this new guy. My ex and I have met in person before, and fell in love, I've known him for two years. I need help please.
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reader, tiamaria12  +, writes (31 January 2012):
Hi,
I really think it would be better if you didn't go back to your ex boyfriend because he will have trust issues now as well as in any future intimate relationslhip you rekindled because of what has happened in the past in between you, I think he will probably be more likely to become your friend if you give him a little time and space. Move forward with your life towards the future and learn valuable lessons from the past.
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