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writes:Been talking to someone for a few months now online..Haven't met yet, hopefully after xmas..We talk almost everyday and have become pretty close as friends..I like her and I know she likes me(there are signs such as her liking/commenting on some of my stupidest posts and commenting on almost every pic I put up but not just that..she told me haha)The thing is I more than just like her...I'm crazy about her...I'm not in love with her but I definitely have that capacity for her and if we were to start dating I can see it going in that direction...Intellectually I think I'm just crazy with the idea of her...She and I are incredibly similar in the personality department...I know I'm not quite ready for a relationship yet...I have trust issues after my ex...I am ready to date and have been dating for a few months now but not one single woman I have gone out with can hold a candle to her, personality-wise.I know its not lust because I know what that's like. It's awesome, how I feel isn't awesome(vulnerable)So here are my questions...Is it possible for me to actually be crazy about her without ever meeting her?Should I go for it regardless whether I'm ready or not?She's around the same height as me, Is that common to see in a relationship?? (I've never seen it)Do I sound like a complete pansy? haha yes
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2011): Don't rush into anything especially if either of you are not ready. Yes it is possible to be crazy about before meeting them in person, if you have spent enough time talking to them and getting to know them, and if they have been honest about who they are. Just keep in mind that they may be different when you do meet, so be prepared for disappointment whilst a little hopeful too. The best thing though is to meet her and take things slow, get to know her and see what happens.
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (21 December 2011):
 I agree with Heretohelpyou. Hang out be freinds and see where it goes. Dont rush into it.
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