A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: I personally think he was always more after my looks than liking me for my personality. When we first started dating things were good! However at times before we were dating he'd act protective and controlling. He'd say he wish I wouldn't post some pics on facebook because he thought they were too sexy or were inappropriate. Then later on he'd flirt and talk with me but I'd hear things from different ppl. One girl who is his close friend said he referred to me as a stalker. Another girl said when I wasn't around he'd flirt with different girls and brag about all these different girls liking him. Some ppl would say or ask if I think he's a player. If ppl said he flirted with other girls that was kind of okay because at that time we weren't officially dating. The thing that bothers me about it is he'd act different when around me and yet seemed to say things behind my back which indicates he's two-faced! He was always nice to me until we had a fight and though I lied to him and he has a right to be angry-he is suddenly a total jerk dissing me to his friends etc. Should I try making up with him or at this point is he even worth it?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (27 May 2011):
Personally I would not try.
Life is too short to have to work SO hard at relationships.
Yes they are work but not HARD work. and not this early on
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