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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:So at the end of last year, I was hanging out with my (70 year old- looking like 50 aunt) LOLLL, and we went to pick up her granddaughter, but before we went to ta gas station and cafe, a very nice spot which happened to be in front of her granddaughters school, and there was a guy which was really nice and my aunt started talking to him, I dont remember him physically speaking, but I can recall he was nice, he happened to be the owner of the place and was young, he was being very sweet (like trying to be social and have a conversation with me), the point is that at that moment I was not living here in the states but abroad.I also had a boyfriend at that time, but now I am permanently living here, my aunt has gone back to that place a couple of times and saw the guy again, and they started talking and he asked her, if I lived abroad due to the fact that if I had a boyfriend or husband over there, and inspite her knowing I had a bf she replied to him:'' no she is single'' (she knew my relationship was a waste of time and was not working, which I was aware of as well)she told me that he seems like a very nice,sweet well put together guy and that he is a good catch, and now that I am here I am curious to see what he is up to, cause he was in fact very sweet the first time I went to his gas station cafe, perhaps I am being naive or too dreamy, but hey you never know, maybe I catch up again and we can exchange numbers and see where it goes that is if he does not have a GIRLFRIEND OR MARRIED(I cannot believe things are to good to be true) maybe he is neither. my aunt told me the he was ’‘single’’. maybe he is not anymore, I dont know.Should I go with her again/Or alone to the cafe,buy something and see if he is there maybe start a conversation with him, what should I do? perhaps he is worth it, you never know. Reply to this Question
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reader, Miss.Cupid +, writes (14 July 2017):
 So I'm assuming you are now single?
I think you answered your own question.
"perhaps he is worth it, you never know" exactly!
Maybe go alone and speak with him. I don't think you need your grandmother holding your hand in the process. Go alone, I'm sure he'll spot you. And see where the conversation goes. Don't be afraid to let things happen, you never know till you try!
Good Luck.
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reader, N91  +, writes (12 July 2017):
 What do you have to lose?
Ask him out for a drink or something to eat and go with it.
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