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*rishgirl24
writes:I've known this guy for nearly a year and we went to college together. I've liked him since the first time I saw him and I'm usually pretty good at the whole flirtatious approach. But with him I just felt so shy! Anyway, long boring story short on our final farewell party I got chatting to him and found out that he's liked me too all this time but he too was shy to approach me. That night we ended up spending the night together. It was great so I thought. He texted me the next day to make sure I got home okay also saying that he had a great time he was very sweet. However its been a few days now and he hasn't text me and I'm not sure what to do now, I quite like him and I was hoping that things would go further, but if all he was after was sex I don't wanna make a first move by texting him and looking like one of those needy, clingy girls!! what should I do help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2008): Did you respond to his text the next day?
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reader, irishgirl24 +, writes (8 November 2008):
irishgirl24 is verified as being by the original poster of the question hey thanks very much for all your advice!!i suppose to clarify yes we had slept together and i know guys will say anything to get what they want but i was really hoping he wasn't one of them-anyway i texted him a couple of days ago just a casual hey how are you?-he text me back we chatted for a while he suggested we meet up the following weekend and i agreed -but for some reason i'm getting that 'be cautious' feeling if it turns out that he really is interested in just having a casual fling now and again i definately wont be texting him!thanks again for your help!xox
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reader, michele21  +, writes (5 November 2008):
 well did you have sex with him the night he stayed with you??? you know a guy will say anything at times just to get in your pants......i've had it happen to me...if you really like him i would just text and say hey how are you if he doesn't txt back than i would leave it alone dont keep txting because that would seem desperate...or just call if he doesn't answer leave a nice voicemail you know like you were just calling to saying hey...im sure you can think of something i don't think he will think your being clingy just don't be obsessed about the phone calls or txts just do it once and if no response i would just move on....good luck
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