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writes: Im a senior in high school this year. Ever since the end of my Sophomore year I have really like this girl. She did something really nice for me, which I wont go into detail. But it really touched my heart, and I've liked her ever since. So that summer (before my Junior year), I told her how I felt (by text) and she said she had feelings for someone else. About a week later she started dating this guy. But now, over a year later, she just broke up with him about 2 weeks ago. Since I told her my feelings, it was really awkward for several months, but soon we became good friends again, and she started texting me and talking to me a lot. And I thought I had a really good chance, but now one of my good friends is talking to her, and she has kinda stopped talking to me like she was. So I just need some advice. Should I tell her again, but face to face this time, or should I wait. Cause I'm afraid if I don't do something now, it could get a lot worse.
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reader, Lola1  +, writes (6 October 2009):
 If one of your friends is talking to her, maybe you should talk with him. Ask him how serious he is about her. You don't even need to tell him how you feel to find this out.
I am inclined to agree that such matters are best left out of text messages. Personally, if I received such a text, I would want it to be reaffirmed live anyway, before I really took it seriously.
I am also inclined to believe that if she had feelings for you, she would not have been with someone else and would not start to pursue something with your friend. Unless your friend tells you they are just friends, there is a very good chance she isn't interested.
Good luck.
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