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writes:Hi i am not sure what to do, i fancy this guy at work but i am 15 years older than him,i dont think he feels the same one minute he will speak the next not i am just the same.Now do i sit him down and tell him perhaps making a fool of myself and possibly him telling people about me?
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reader, dearkelja  +, writes (1 September 2008):
 Given the situation, age difference and working together, perhaps just try to develop the friendship. It could be that yes, he has feelings for you but then he feels like he shouldn't because of the age difference. He could also be getting teased from his fellow co-workers if he does show an interest in you. Some guys just are not ok with dating women from work too so you will never know what his issues are. It's best anyway to just be his friend and see what happens from there, if anything.
I would not tell him I fancied him, not until you have a better indication of his feelings towards you. It could create a very messy work environment with him avoiding you, people talking, etc.
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reader, Aunty Em +, writes (1 September 2008):
 As well as being fifteen years your junior, he is also a work colleauge who you suspect does not feel the same.
Would the confession be worth it looking at the odds?
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