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writes:So I've been seeing this guy for about 4 weeks now. We haven't talked about making it official. A few nights ago I kissed some other guy, but it didn't mean anything to me. Should I tell the guy who i've been seeing about that kiss or no? I feel like I cheated. I feel terrible. But then again I don't want to screw up what we have now over a meaningless kiss. Reply to this Question
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (3 November 2010):
 You don't owe him an explanation. There's no cheating that took place since you two aren't officially in a relationship. You're just seeing each other, in which you have no obligation to him and you can even choose to see other guys as well. So no I wouldn't tell him about this meaningless kiss, there's no need to. Just focus on working towards a relationship with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2010): I personally think you should talk to him about it. But I believe honesty to be the best policy here.
Why exactly did you feel the need to snog someone else? If it was in a play or some other type of acting gig... then there is no issue.
If it it outside of business... then anything like that is a no no to me.
You didn't cheat, not as far as my definition of the word is concerned, but you did show extreme disrespect to your partner.
To do anything like this when involved with someone else is to risk screwing up what you have. You knew and know this.
It's time to own up to your mistake and try to learn from it and make amends.
Flynn 24
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