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anonymous
writes: Should I tell the guy I've been dating for two yrs tht I'm in luv with him? When we text message each he sends me hearts and smiley faces. I asked him if he loved me and he said he has a lot of luv for me. What does tht mean? What should I do and I take the hearts he's sending me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2009): He means he has feelings for you, but does not love you. I am in the same boat with the guy I have been dating for about two years. He tells me sometimes he feels he is falling in love with me...deeply, and sometimes he doesn't. He has love for me, but he is not inlove with me.I am planning to see if things change in a few months, if they don't, then I am looking elsewhere for the love we all deserve.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2009): This sounds weird. After two years you havent told him you love him??? Yes if you love him then tell him!
(is it just me that is able to love people sooner? I told my boyfriend that I love him after merely a couple of months dating! and yes its true feelings)
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2009): I hope that after two years you are doing more than text messaging each other and that you are not putting stock in smiley faces and hearts sent on a phone.He says he has a lot of love for you, that is not the same as saying he loves you exactly. Does he claim you as his exclusive girlfriend? If not, this relationship is not going anywhere, it does not take two years for a man to do that or to tell you that he loves you.Of course you should tell him how you feel and after all this time if you still don't know where this relationship is headed or what it means to him, then you absolutely need to find out. Ask him. It is better to know now than to waste another two years of your own love life on someone who does not want the same thing as you, on someone who does not love you and see a future with you.
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