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Should I tell my mother her boyfriend will eventually hurt her? What do I do about his attraction towards me?

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Question - (8 February 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 8 February 2009)
A female Australia age 30-35, *methyst_Tears writes:

Hi, anyone been in this pedicament?

My mom's boyfriend is 40yrs, good looking and a HUGE womaniser. They've been "going out" for about three months now. Problem is, my mom thinks they will eventually move in together, get married,etc. but these thoughts scare him to death ( he told me so). She wants commitment and he wants a "no-strings attatched" relationship. AS you can tell my mom is smitten with him!

From the couple of times I've talked to him we seem to get along pretty well, and we have the same mindset and interests. All's well in this but I think he's falling for me! I know I'm quite young for him and even though I like him as well I wouldn't pursue anything with him purely because I love my mom and it would kill her.

Could anyone tell me what to do because I'm cofused. I know he will eventually hurt my mom but should I tell her what he's like or should I let her find out for herslf? Plus what do I do about this attraction of his towards me?

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A female reader, Amethyst_Tears Australia +, writes (8 February 2009):

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His attraction to me is not in my head as he keeps saying that if I was ten years older he would sleep with me and all this stuff. And my mum will find it very hard to belive me if I told her. She will think I made it up.

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