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writes:Hi,Let me introduce myself, im a 15 year-old boy and from England. My problem is that I am very interested in crossdressing and I really don't know whether or not to tell my girlfriend about it! Last week I told my best-girlfriend (who is basically my sister) and she loves the idea and wants to help out. I'm just not sure what to do, I don't like lieing to my girlfriend, and I don't want to lie anymore :(. What do I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (9 August 2010):
 I think you should only tell your girlfriend if you trust her not to say anything to her friends or family. She maybe upset and take it as a sign that you are gay or bisexual (and thus rejecting her). I am not suggesting that you are, but cross-dressing is sometimes associated with being gay by some people (often those who haven't actually had any contact with the transsexual community!). If she is upset or a bit of a gossip who is inclined to share personal matters with her friends then it may leak out in the community, and your school. You may then be bullied or teased about it. I am not suggesting you don't tell your girlfriend, but make that choice based on the long term implications.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2010): when you say cross-dressing, do you mean dressing in girls clothes? or not having a sense of style? i dont really know what it means... i think you should try and tell your girlfriend, gently, and - just check to see if shes wet herself. if not, then try and lose this obsession with cross-dressing... im sorry, i usually have a rational reason but i cant think of anything in your case
hope i helped :'(
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