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Should I tell my family I'm gay?

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Question - (19 November 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 19 November 2009)
A male Philippines age 36-40, *home writes:

[Moderator Note: OP, there isn't a third gender. If there were, threesomes would be much less messy.]

hello to everyone. i need your advice. please tell me what to do to overcome this problem that i am facing now.

i belong to a third gender(gay) but i am afraid to show who really am i to my family and friends becasue they think that i am a normal person.

do you think it is better to tell them the truth?

how if they get angry to me?

please help me.

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A reader, icecube2046 United Kingdom +, writes (19 November 2009):

I would say tell them!

I'm 24 and have only told my parents this week that im gay... it's been holding me back, giving me anxiety and just general negativity!

I can't tell you how much better I feel- free somehow, free to be myself.

They didn't agree at first but this won't change how much they love you

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A male reader, thome Philippines +, writes (19 November 2009):

thome is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thome agony aunti would like to thank all the good friends who gave good advice to me. i hope you will give some pieces of advice again whenever i need them. thank you so much and God bless.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2009):

you should'nt care what they think about you you should only care about if your comfotable in your skin or not. i think you should tell them and if they get angry tell them that your already comfotable with it and your just waiting for them to get used to it. best wishes~

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