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writes:Dear Aunts, my boyfriend left for America 4 months ago and now hes back, however while he was away i was taken into hospital and tests showed that i was pregnant and had miscarried, i hadn't known i was pregnant.I didn't tell him as i didn't want to upset him, but now it's really getting to me. What should i do? Tell him? Reply to this Question
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reader, Dawnie +, writes (16 February 2008):
 Yes you need to tell him. You need his love and support to help you come to terms with this. Sit him down and tell him, i'm sure he will be upset but he still needs to know.
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reader, kellyO +, writes (16 February 2008):
 Hi dearie,
I think you should tell him. You need his support for this one, i can see it is eating you up inside also.
Lots of hugs
Kelly
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2008): Honey, you've really really got to tell him. If you're serious about him, and want to be with him for the rest of your life, and love him with all of your heart, then it's bound to come out some time or other. What would you feel if you were him? I'm sure he'd much rather know he had a child, but you miscarried, than you lied to him about it for all his life. This is an important thing, he has a right to know what happened. Just because he's been away doesn't mean he shouldn't know. I'm sure he'd support you, and reassure you that everything will be alright in time, so tell him honey. Please.
Good luck :]
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