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anonymous
writes:I dont know when i'll see him. But it will be eventually for certain reasons.Ive been tryin to see him for like a month. Plans are made and he backs out. i rearrange my day for a day he says and then he cancels.I found out that i wasn't well. Its fixable but due to it i have been feeling terrible.We agreed to be friends. He then said 'friends for now/not ruling it out'. He still apparently smiles at my photos... but for about 3 weeks its been a bit odd. Haven't heard from him at all really in 2 weeks.Im wondering if i should tell him - i have not been well - i have not been myself. The person u think i am, im not. If u were feeling as bad as i have u would be the same. More of an explaination..........i know he probably wont care. But im thinking more that it'll help me move on..................good or bad idea?due to this illness i have lost 7kg (15.4 pounds) - no exercise.i do feel different - apart from the weight loss which is apparently rather noticable, my hair is different too.i did tell him via a text that i found out i haven't been well... but NOTHING. no reply......he tells me he cares but he doesn't show it. so i dont know. i feel i need to tell him so i can get it off my chest, it might help me move on. i keep thinking about it. i cant get it off my mind.......... is my option to tell him so theres a chance that i gt it out of my head. I dont think im really worried about what his response will be. If anything i think he MAY show a caring side to my face, he may not mean it of course. He just has not made any real attempt to see me though for like a month...............
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2009): He doesn't need to know anything. If you're not worth his time, then he's not worth yours. Tell your friends and family who do love you and care, and have them be by your side during this difficult time. You need to surround yourself with positive energy so you can heal and move on with your life.
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