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writes:I need some help on how i can get over my ex boyfriend.Arhhh i love him so much, but i have to get over him, i dont think there is any way that me and him could get back together and make it work, because no matter what we try it just will not work! He still loves me and i know that because he always tells me that, and he says we can make it work. I still deeply LOVE him, but he dosnt no that and i dont intend in telling him that because i dont think that we would make a lasting relation ship because it didnt last past 2 months last time, and i dont want to tell him i really do still love him and then him try convince me to try make it work, because i dont think it will work and i dont want to end up hurt like i was last time. some part of me just really wants to take him back but i am so scared i will be the one hurt again, and i dont want that to happen, i just dont know what to do any more.Should i tell him how i really feel ? Or should i keep it to myself.?and i dont think it will work so, what should i do ?and how do i get over him ?he was my FIRST proper love. i loved him more than anything. im just so confused and dont no what to do. help please xx thank you
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reader, Jendorset +, writes (14 November 2008):
I remember feeling this way when i was at school and it really hurts. Theres two ways of looking at it, if you REALLY dont think it will work and you dont want to get hurt tell him that. Make some space between you as you can never get over someone when you always see them. The option that i would choose, is seeing that your young just go for it. If you dont you will regret it and its better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. You love him so tell him. Just see what happens...its all experience. Its obvious you want to be with him. Message me at any time if you want to.
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reader, Amit_bd  +, writes (14 November 2008):
Just dont ruin it. We have one life. And we need one love. Just tell him. You ll never get a second chance to be wid your most loved one in this short life. So tell it to him. Think how short life is, forget everything N tell him unlike me.
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