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30-35,
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writes:Hi, I've known this girl since the start of high school, so for about 5 years now, we were once close then slowly drifted apart, but just recently are getting close again.I have fallen madly in love with her and I can't stop thinking about her. I dont know whether to tell her my feelings or not as i fear it could make things awkward or ruin our current relationship.Please help if you can. I this girl literally means the world to me and I would do anything for her. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2008): You sound like a really sweet guy, and if you put it like that, then any girl in the right mind would fall for you.I think you should definitely tell her what you're feeling, as this sounds quite hard to hide, and you never know, she may feel the same way, yet she has the same problem!However, before you jump in and tell her how much you've thought about her recently, try and talk to her a little more than normal, and try to decide in your head if you think she likes you too. If you really get the impression that she would like to be no more than friends, then wait a little while.I think that if it 'ruins your current relationship' then there is always hope in the distance. If you love her as much as you claim to, then you wouldn't just give in. You should try and show her the best you can that you love her - send her sweet little notes, or a flower, or smile at her if you see her. Don't go overboard though, as you could get on her nerves.So try and evaluate her feelings first, but definitely let her know how you feel, it could turn out amazing.
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