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writes: First off I apologise if I ramble, but I just need to get it all out, but thanks for taking the time to read thisI just finished the first Semester of University and have made lots of friends...but only one who I've really clicked with. I've never met anyone like her. We're pretty much inseperable and we've really missed each other all the time since we've broken up for Christmas, we've even bought a house together (joint landlords) for us and 4 other mates for the next 2 years. The thing is, I have really strong feelings for her...dunno if it's love or not :(We were going out inside the first 3 days at university, but she thought we were moving too fast and just wanted to be friends by the end of the third week. I accepted but still haven't got over her, even though I know she was probably never really into me. I've been the shoulder to cry on for her through all the various boy-related troubles she's had and it killed me everytime I saw her with anyone else. I end up getting REALLY depressed about it about once every week, then I seem to get optimistic about things but really it's just one massive cycle :SI've told her my feelings for her and she's kinda brushed them off, giving me the whole 'best friends' thing, maybe hinting at a bit more, but so far she's acted as if nothing's happened. I have no idea what to do, I've talked to my other friends at Uni and they see us getting together eventually, and I can't talk to my best friends at home coz they don't really know the situationShe's coming from halfway across the country to see me in about 3 days for a whole week, should I tell her again how I feel or just concentrate on having a good time with her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2007): You should try and she if likes u by asking maybe but maybe she likes someone else this has happened to me even tho im only 12 but dont pressure her into telling u if she likes u becuz she will lie just like give her a yes,no note
the yes or no note is like this
Do u like me
yes [] no []
i know lol ifs a bit kiddish but it works!
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reader, blondebabygurl +, writes (1 January 2007):
 hiya
if she is just brushing it off then this could mean 2 different things!
1. she is shy or 2. she dosent want to break-up the good friend ship you have!
but if you just tell her that you like her as more than friends and tell her about your feelings and how strong they are but make sure you say that it dosent matter if she dosent feel the same so you are not forcing her into saying it!
most friends that are male and female always get accused of being bf and gf but that isnt always the case!
or there is another thing you could do which is, see how the week goes and then txt her off your mobile and start off with simple things like... did you enjoy the week staying with me? and then get personal like.. i think i might love you and it would be the best thing that if you want to be with me too!! dont be too blunt though! hope you get on well and all is fine!
best of luck for 2007 x x
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