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writes:So i bisexual, there is a girl i like and she doesn't know. I'd like to get in a relationship with her in the future, but i think she would feel dodgy about it if i told her. What should i do, tell her about it before (If I do Go Out with her), or tell her during(if it happens)?? Reply to this Question
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reader, Uncle Trev +, writes (16 March 2008):
This is a difficult one - maybe ask her out for a social drink and whilst having that drink tell her.
If you were not to tell her and started dating her it would only be a matter of time before somebody would tell her. This would make things difficult not as regards towards your sexuality but in respect of your honesty.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2008): Hmm well I think you should tell her, and then ask her out. If she dates you and then finds out, she probably won't be very happy! If she doesn't want to date you because of your sexuality, then she's not really worth dating at all honey. She should love you for who you are, and not just by what your sexual preferences are. Good luck :]
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2008): You should talk to her before you start a relationship, because if you start something it will be harder if she disagrees with your ways. she shouldnt though. Good Luck
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