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Should I talk to him?

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Question - (1 December 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 2 December 2009)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

My friend and I about six months ago were having this little thing...

I liked the same guy as her, I liked him after I hung out with him a couple of times...

Me and him would text for two hours straight and never run out of something to talk about... It was adorable.

He would always ask me who I liked and I would tell him that he would have to tell me first who he liked... And he never would.

So we stopped talking about crushes and all that and just talked here and there.

So finally one day, I asked my friend if I could tell him I liked him (me thinking I was gonna get a boyfriend of my dreams the very next day). She said I could and she said she would completely back off, and also she wouldn't mind, and that she was happy for me.

So I told him I liked him over text (because I don't see him much except for once or twice a week) and he told me to text my friend and ask her if anything was new and it turned out she told him that she liked him, and they started dating...

So my friend and my ex crush went out for like... 3 months GF and BF, and they never talked so he broke up with her. And now he has been following me around and staring at me a lot and trying to get my attention in any way possible...

I kinda am starting to fall for him again... IM STUPID FOR IT..

What should I do? Maybe talk to him? Idk.

He said if a guy ever hurt me, he would kill him.

NOTE! He also was talking to another one of my friends (he doesn't like her like that, I know for a fact.) about me and my best friend, trying to decide which one he liked more before he went out with my friend.

Thanks! Please help me!

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A female reader, KANDIWRPR United States +, writes (2 December 2009):

KANDIWRPR agony auntdude what kind of friend is that?

if i read it right

your friend went out with him after you told her

that you like him?

no no

just keep away from him

if he really liked you he wouldnt have gone out with your friend that easily..

thats like if later he finds another interesting girl he will leave you easiliy for her

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A male reader, doom France +, writes (1 December 2009):

doom agony auntbad idea!!!! if he dated your friend!! that' sbad idea!! very rare it turns right....so don't let your feelings gain over your rational part!!)

good luck

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