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writes:Dear cupid im 14 and think i like this boy hes an upper class-man and hes a jock. first noticed him at a football game when he ran through the stadium and he saw the crowd. Then i thought he was really attractive and i forgot not to stare so he caught my eyes on him and he stared back at me for about a 2 minutes. now everyday i cant stop staring at him for almost all my lunch time. onetime i walked into the lunch room and his boy told him i was staring . He looked over at me then did a double take and layed his eyes on me i couldn't tell if he was smiling . then he looked over at me in the lunch line and he was really obvious about it. i GOT his number and txted him it was like weird game cause i would never tell him who i was and he finally stopped asking and said "damn y don't u just tell me u keep putting it off" So i only told him some of my name after that i only saw him at lunch i really dont know what to do. Should I talk to him while all his boys are around or wait till I see him after school cuase im so confused. Should i just tell him I like him? Reply to this Question
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (12 September 2010):
 Be nice to him, talk and smile!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThe things is i really dont know how to talk to him cuase i fell so awkward around him and hes so confident its a setback for me. i found out hes in the same club as me after school sometimes so thats great but any othertime i cant really talk to him cause hes always with his friends. the only time hes not with friends is during after school club im in . i think i better make a move quick because soon homecoming is here and i want him to take me what should i do.
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reader, j.c.d.l  +, writes (9 September 2010):
Relax, stop staring he might think your desperate. Just say hi and have a convorsation, while hes not with his friends.
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reader, chigirl +, writes (8 September 2010):
Don't tell him you like him just yet. And talk to him when he is alone, if you get a chance. Just have some casual conversation before you mention anything about "liking". If you play it right you wont ever have to get to that point. It can be very humiliating if he doesnt like you back, and if he is not sure what do to either it can be awkward. What you do is you talk to him alone first. Then next time you talk to him maybe see if the two of you can hang out sometime. Don't talk to him in front of his boys/friends unless he invites you over. If he talks to you while he is with the boys you can talk to him and it is ok. But you first need to talk to him alone... Having the boys around create peer pressure, plus he might want to keep up appearances and try to be "cool". If you catch him alone he will be more like himself. Another thing, if he does talk to you in front of his friends, that is a good sign that he likes you back. Just take this slow and easy, one step at a time.
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