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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I went out to a few clubs with friends last night and there was this one random guy hitting on me way more insistently than anyone ever before! So he'd tried to kiss me maybe 8 times when I started wondering why I really didn't want him to kiss me - there seemed to be more to it than me just not liking to kiss guys I don't know. Now, I've been trying to choose between 2 guys for a while, Sam and Ben. I've thought about things I like about each of them and how they each fit into what I'm looking for in a partner. After so much thought, I've come no closer to choosing until it hit me that if I kissed this guy, I'd feel like I was betraying Sam in some way. So I thought of Sam and not Ben in this situation. Do you think I should take that as a sign of my deepest feelings? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2009): Hi Although I'm the opposite gender, the same problem can arise for guys as well!And I think the problem arises by being a little too analytical - you're probably young enough yet to be able to 'go around the block' a few times without pinning down Mr Right, so maybe just enjoy the ride and remember you can hop off at any time, and try someone else!And don't forget that it has (pardon the motoring parlance) to be a two-way street - don't get too upset if neither of your selections is very interested.Good luck - stay safe and take care.
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