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male
age
26-29,
*cycoolx2
writes:Okay so I have deep feelings for this girl but I don't know whether to ignore the feelings or act upon them. So I started going to this church and I met a cool youth group and all these people, after my dad started pastoring the church. I met this one girl who I wasn't interested in at first but I thought maybe she was interested because she seemed like she was flirting with me, but I'm not sure. After a couple of interactions with her, and me thinking about them more and more I eventually became interested. I started having feelings for this girl since like 5 or 6 weeks ago. She seems like she is really cool but the problem is that I can only have a chance to make a move on her and talk to her on sundays and on youth events. I also am homeschooled and she goes to a public school. Although I am 16 I can't drive because I decided to wait until next year to start driving (I regret that decision). Since a few weeks ago I am always thinking about her and she pops into my head no matter what I am doing. I could be just waking up and she is the first thing that comes to mind everytime, literally. I don't know if this is an unhealthy obsession or not. Is it? and should I wait until I get older to start trying to get a girlfriend/dating/worrying about this stuff and just ignore these feelings for her?
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reader, Ms.help with anything13 +, writes (24 August 2012):
You are not obsessing over this girl it just means you really like her not love her but like her.Its not uncommon to really like her but when you wanna start dating is a question only you can answer if you wanna wait you can but if you really like make the right moves now or the chances your probably being given r gonna wear thin and then they'll be gone so make the moves while you still can
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reader, Ms.help with anything13 +, writes (24 August 2012):
You are not obsessing over this girl it just means you really like her not love her but like her.Its not unormal to really like her but when you wanna start dating is a question only you can answer if you wanna wait you can but if you really like make the right moves now or the chances your probably being given r gonna wear thin and then they'll be gone so make the moves while you still can
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