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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I was the third one in every word ends with "ship" all the time. I was hanging out with popular girls. They were using me for information or something for their benefits. ( like Blair's girls on gossip girl) One of them dated my longtime crush. I wasn't thinking that I was used by them. After 2 years I only have one friend who was also a popular girl. I don't want to see or keep in touch with others. Me and the 'only' friend promised that we will support each other about our dreams.(professedly) But when we chat, She is always talking about what she found, what she will do, who answered her tweet, e-mail about her dream job etc. She never asks about me. It was like this everytime in every kind of relationship. I'm afraid that It will last forever. I don't want to be a rebound girl or a friend who is used when she is necessary. I want to have my own personality. Suggestions, experiences?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2012): Honestly, I think you need to look for other friends. The best friends from experience aren't always the popular kids! Things like popularity makes no difference when you finish school. At uni you find people who are like you (same interests etc...) and after uni none of it will ever matter as you will be working, and only those true friends will you make time for. I suggest to keep searching for friends that you have things in common with and broaden your search. Your only best friend sounds like she only uses you to gloat! Trust me when I say that when the best friends come, they will never leave your side.
Hope it helps xx
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