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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: My ex moved away and that's why we broke up.I went down to see him in January (first time in 2 years, since the break-up) and he: asked me if I'd like to go out for a drink with him, hugged me goodbye, it was just like old times, friend said she thought he was still 'fond' of me too! When we e-mail (which isn't very often) he asks me if I fancy anyone or done anything else with anyone, says I'm still good-looking, have sexual conversations, but says he wouldn't act upon it as we aren't going out.Anyway, I've always liked him, even though we broke up 2 years ago. I know I shouldn't still like him, but he was my first love and everything, and he's still so special to me, and I love him to bits. Earlier, I looked on Myspace to see if he had an account (we aren't friends on it) and he had his display picture as him and this girl long black haired girl (obviously on a night out)... and I started to get so jealous, and I burst into tears.. and now I'm really down about it. I know people change their photos all the time, but I guess it was cause it was him and a girl that *could* be his girlfriend I just got so upset. I might be seeing him next week, and I might not. Not sure if it'll be a good thing, cause if I don't see him I'll be annoyed, but if I do then I'd want things to go further, and I doubt that'll happen. When I saw him in January I was so upset when I got home, just because I'd enjoyed being with him so much. I just really don't know what to do, I'm so confused and I really need some advice. What are your thoughts on me and him? What should I do about the whole situation?
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