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writes: I split from by ex in April and am now dating a guy who has a child of 18mths. He works hard, but seems to be sruggling financially and i'm not sure if he would be able to provide for me. I have fallen for the new guy and i know he loves me, but i can't get my ex out of my head and keep crying as i am not sure if i have made the right decision.I don't know if i should stay with him or try and resolve things with my ex?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2006): Well then I have to question what loves truly means to you.
Wedding vows: "In sickness and in health, for richer or poorer, through good times and bad"; they hold any meaning to you?
Regardless if you are married to someone; you sleep with them, lie in their bed...consider the commitment just as stong as marriage.
Why is the Ex an Ex? Does money mean more to you then a loving man who can respect you but seems to be struggling at the moment finacially?
You can work and keep care of yourself and should be self reliant before relying on another. Do this and the finacial is trivial.
There is a solution to your dilemma. Just are you willing to tough it out and lend a hand?
In the end, it is your choice, your heart, your life.
Do what you feel is right.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2006): Your ex is probably better off without you if he's trying to get back on his feet at the moment. If it comes down to a choice between two good boyfriends, the one with fewer personal problems is the right choice. Don't ever think for a minute that there is only one right man for you - there are people who are right for you at different times and in different circumstances.
On a more empowering note, no one *needs* anyone else to provide for them anymore.
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