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writes:Well, my ex and I have a crazy relationship. Every time he's left me, he's come crawling back. So we decided to try to patch things up, but I didn't want to make it official until I saw changes. We got into a small argument a few weeks ago, and ever since then I haven't heard from him. I don't know what to do. One minute he's telling his mom that he loves me and wants to spend the rest of his life with me, then 4 days later he ignores me. I think he want to have me around, cause he actually does care about me, maybe I'm wrong. But then I think he wants other women around when things get tough with us. He wants best of both worlds. He knows I'm a committed person, and he knows I am deeply in love with him. I think he uses that to his advantage. My friends are saying to move on, some are saying he'll come back and then I'll have to play hard to get. Please HELP!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you both for your advice. I think I will just move on with my life and see where it takes me. Thanks so much!
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (18 July 2011):
 this little boy doesn't know what he wants but there is one thing for sure - if he cared deeply he would not want to run the risk of losing you and he would not behave this way.
he knows he has got you on the end of a piece of string and he is very confident that when he dumps you he can pick you up again and you will be grateful.
make more of a life for yourself outside of this on/off relationship. you are making it all too easy for him and he finds it boring, hence the constant need for drama.
next time he dumps you make him work much harder to get you back, make him worried that he may have lost you. if he does not respond to this and he just gives up trying to get you back, then you will have your answer
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2011): Never mind 'play hard to get' try 'I'm out of here,you're a loser good luck with whatever you do in life'! That should be your next move when he comes back.He knows he can walk all over you and he is! Men will push the boundaries but its down to us women to set those bounderies and stick to them! Once you get some backbone and show him the door he will start to show you some respect, but do you really want to be with a man who only 'cares" about you? Do you not feel you deserve a man who can love you back and give you the world?
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