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writes:I have been living by myself for a little while now, and it has been very hard for me. I've always been used to coming home to someone and now that I don't makes me feel depressed. It's like a black cloud that hovers above me. I haven't made friends, bt I do have a bf who is wonderful even if we bicker sometimes. The only thing is that he will be leaving in a year for his job and he cant take me with him. Loneliness plus sometimes bickering with him, has brought me to the idea of going back to the Dominican Republic. Over there I have my family and friends, and I won't feel so alone but I'll be losing him sooner than when he will be leaving.I've told him this, and he wants me to do what makes me happy, bit in all honesty i dont know what that is. Yes, I will have nore company of family and friends if I leave but will I be happier or will i still be sad like i am now ???This is all confusing, someone please help me out, and if this is too confusing pls inbox me to explain better
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2014): Make some friends!!
Why are you here? That is the main question. Are you here for your bf? if so, then yes maybe it's time to go back. Are you here for another reason such as college? in that case, No it's not time to go back.
If you are in college, join a club for people with your same background or the international club. It's the easiest way to make friends because the meetings are always open to the public and they always are wanting more people!
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (13 January 2014):
 I think the relationship is not making you happy. You want more than what he can give you. So going back home is not going to change that. You can make a visit to the Dominican Republic the next holiday. Maybe all you need is a change of environment and just some relaxation. Maybe your family members can give you more advice on whether to stay with that man or not. I don't know what your living situation is but no matter what do not plan your life around a man who has not made long term plans with you.
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