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writes:hi i need to ask if i did the right thing. my x boyfriend has a drug problem and it seems that he wont change. yesterday i found out that he,s been asking for money from his friends, and his father give him too and he spent them all in a week he spent €200 in 5 days . HE owes me money too and yesterday i told him i cant help you anymore just give me what you owe me and you can live your life as you like but i wont be involved in it, i dont want to give him money for the drug which maybe i did, in a week i caught him 3 times. if i dont stay friends with him would i make him worse cause he tells me that he still loves me and respect me but i told him you dont respect yourself and your parents how can you respect me. my question is do i stay friends? i give up i cant help him he has to help himself but he wont listen tks for your advise
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reader, mimisoph3  +, writes (10 June 2009):
 it all depends if u want to stay in his life or not. i think that if u stay in his life u might stop the addiction to drugs encourage and ask him to see a therapist or help like rehab. if u do leave him there might be a chance of him getting worse because his heart broken. maybe he started the drugs because theres something going on in his family or u broke his heart because he does love u. i think the best thing to do is just try to be a friend to him thats probably wat he needs now and ask him to get help for u. he might change into a better person and u guys might be together again.. good luck.
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