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*abycakes5427
writes:so tonight i was out with my friend and i deceided to stop by my boyfriends friends house on the way home just to see if he was there and say hi. well i drove up and saw his car so i pulled along side of it. then! he took off driving in his car as fast as he could. my friend was with me and thought he has went on to the freeway which he had and i caught up to him. turns out there was another girl in his car. this girl had been texting my boyfriend earlier in our relationship wanting to hang out but he always told her he was with me (supposedly she had a thing for him)i was so mad and he wouldnt pull over.. he was taking her home and afaid i would do something. so anyways my question is: what do you think i should do? i have forgiven him a number of times (i.e he cheated on me once, he told another girl on myspace he loved her, i found out he was at a party when hadnt told me-this was all over 4 months) so ya i've already broken up with him and given back my promise ring ($400) so should i stay broken up for good, i loved him but i "think" this is the best thing to do. what do you think? :)
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reader, NewlyHappySingle +, writes (5 January 2008):
if you still have the ring you should pawn it. And yeah, leave his a**.
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reader, dearkelja +, writes (5 January 2008):
 Well, since you want some more advice I will chime in. Your guy cheated on you. That alone is reason to leave. What I find extremely immature is that he was caught and instead of doing the manly thing he embarks on a high speed chase. This tells me that he will do anything to hide things from you in the future. He is not trustworthy and you need to realize now that you can not reform him so move on and find someone respectable. You should not be treated like this.
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reader, babycakes5427 +, writes (4 January 2008):
babycakes5427 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you soo much! please keep commenting i need all the support i can get! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2008): You should just move on, you know in your heart and soul its the right thing to do!
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reader, rockelle +, writes (4 January 2008):
 I think you have made a very smart decision. You walked away and saved yourself a lot of headaches in the long run. This guy is no good for you. He is a liar and a cheat you deserve better.
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reader, TELLULAH  +, writes (4 January 2008):
 Of course you have done the right thing. This man is a liar and a cheat. You will be much better off without him.
Take care and Happy New Year XXX
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2008): yes i say walk away for good. In the long term it will be better for you and you will save yourself a lot of pain and heartache. You deserve better than this!
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