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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I've been with my girlfriend for almost 4 months, its always been perfect, knowing that we are meant to be together, always being able to make each other smile, and both of us feeling loved.The other day we were in my house and I was reading her diary entries of mine, (because I feel close enough to her to do that) and I had to leave the room for a second, and while I was gone, she read some of my diary I didn't intend her to see, and now she has read it, she is questioning whether we should be together.Basically in my diary, it was from a few months ago, when I was not around her for a day or two, and I felt paranoid, I was worrying if I was getting bored of the relationship, but I know that I wasn't and ever since I've never thought anything remotely like that, but she sees it as a big deal, she thinks that I should have spoken to her about it, and the reason why I didn't tell her how I felt at the time, is because I realised I didn't feel like it, and it was not an issue to me. I know that she still loves me, as she says she does, but she is thinking of breaking up with me because she doesn't want to get hurt like this again. What can I do to prove to her that I didn't mean what I wrote, and that I will never ever let her down again? Reply to this Question
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reader, Ms Tee +, writes (4 January 2008):
 Sit down and talk to her and explain that your diary is just an outlet for you to express your feelings at that moment, but in no way represents your feelings for her. I keep a diary too and would be mortified if anyone read certain bits of it! You clearly love your girlfriend very much and I hope you can work it out x
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