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Should I start dating?

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Question - (1 July 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 1 July 2011)
A male United States age 30-35, *oolguy100 writes:

Ive been wondering for awhile if I should get into the dating world or not. Ive been mainly focused on college, work, and building my career and lately ive been thinking since im young and such what should I do? Iam 20 years old and iam a virgin so dating right now would pose a problem for me because I know alot of women who would stay clear of me because of this. Nothing is wrong with me physical or health wise its just I have a high standard for women. When thinking of women I would consider dating their all basically on a scale from 1-10 a 10. The women who have expressed interest in me have left a bitter taste in my mouth so to speak and really got me thinking all women are the same. This may not be true but for me so far it is. So is dating really worth it for me should I wait until my middle 20s to start looking or should I just start now and expect the worst and hope for the best?

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A male reader, coolguy100 United States +, writes (1 July 2011):

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I would like to thank you ladies for your feedback. Being 20 and a virgin puts alot of pressure because i hear both sides of the coin all he time. I hear from one group, you're young and should be sleeping around with as many women as Possible because once you get older many problems occur within the male body you cant reverse. Then from the other group i hear you should wait for the right Person. I use to know what i wanted and wait but every year i become more uncertain. I know i would like some type of relationship with a woman so i can go out and have a good time with but after that its all hazy.

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A female reader, sammy1986 United Kingdom +, writes (1 July 2011):

so what if you are a virgin at 20 there is nothing wrong with that

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2011):

i think you should most certainly start dating! but you cant be discouraged by a few bad experinces because bad experinces show you what you like and dislike in partners and its very important to get experince.The fact that your a virgin wont turn off women if they share your interest and when you find the right person it will be worth it!

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