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Should I spice it up before we go on separate weekend trips or when we get back?

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Question - (10 June 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 10 June 2009)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Ok, so my bf (going on 5 months dating) and I are going our separate ways this weekend. I will be attending a family wedding and he will go out to the casino with his buds.

I want to buy some lingerie and wear it for him. We have a great sex life but it's getting to be the same ol' thing. I want to spice it up a bit!

But when should I do this? The day before so that he'll have something on his mind while out gambling.:) or after I see him..as a way of saying 'I missed you.'

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2009):

try hot candle wax, I love it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2009):

Give him a taster before the weekend and say it was just a taster of what he faces when he gets back

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2009):

i think you should do it when you get back because it will be more romantic. at least you will know he'll be missing you and not just the sex.

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A female reader, x.Helen.x United Kingdom +, writes (10 June 2009):

x.Helen.x agony auntI would use it after if i were you. Either way im sure he will be thrilled. Its nice to see you making such an effort though. You sound like a pretty cool girlfriend. If i were you i would buy the lingerie and perhaps send him a picture of you wearing it while hes away. you could send it to his phone with a naughty little text messege to go with it.(perhaps about how much your missing him/what you want to do to him /or a little preview of what hes gonna be getting) That way not only will you be showing him what hes missing out on but you will be on his mind the whole weekend and he'll be so excited to see you after. anyway i hope it works out for you . good luck.x

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A female reader, Geowjah. United Kingdom +, writes (10 June 2009):

Geowjah. agony auntmabey, tell him you have a surprise for him when he gets home, and keep him guessing what it is.

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