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Should I say something and see if he tries to get me back?

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Question - (12 December 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 12 December 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ok, this may be a long one! So I'll be grateful for any help! I'm 15, and I met this guy who was 18. He text me etc, we saw each other a few times and spoke on msn, and I already new of him because I know a lot of his mates. I went to his 18th and then he kissed me etc, after that told me he liked me etc. Next time was a gathering where we were close, and I've seen him a lot now, I'm not sure how long but it's been months. So anyway, we've had some really sweet moments, and we've told each other we like each other.

Recently, he fell out with some of his mates because they're saying he's quite, unreliable; which is is. He owes some people money, and i've heard plenty of times where his mates have planned to meet him and he's let them down. I know his friends, so this is why i know.

He fell out with one of his best mates who is also one of mine, and he wrote our mate a message as they fell out, saying he needs him and wants to make friends etc, and he said it's afecting me and him.

Recently he has been, reaaally distant with me. He doesn't come on msn much anyway as he's always out, he never texts me or calls me, but he doesn't with anyone else either, but I guess I'd just like more attention, as it's making me question if he even likes me. I think he's one of them hard to get types, but it's like he's trying too much to be it if you get me?

I've kind of spoke to him and he said sorry etc and then we were fine, but now it's been a week again and I haven't heard off him.

My question is, do i just leave it? Or should I say something and see if he trys to get me back, or should I just wait and then not be bothered? I'm scared of talking to him about it because we aren't in a proper relationship, so he could be like, why does she want all this affection we're not even going out?

Guys are too confusing!

much love xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2009):

right so his guy is 18, and youre in the age limit of 13-15.

He's obviously not interested as he would have contacted you by now.

He's obviously out with his friends, and getting on with life as 18 year olds do, not messing around with little girls.

Find someone your own age!

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