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Husband using work for coping with our problems

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Question - (12 December 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 12 December 2009)
A female age , anonymous writes:

Can my husband use his work for coping with our problems?

He is a great provider!No question about that!I'm thankful for it!And complement him,all the time/

We have a lot going on in our life, and I'm getting therapy for it. All kind of troubles, adult children on drugs, in laws,health,intimacy and more. I have sleepless nights,and getting very depressed, but my husband don't seem to have emotional discomfort. He is not having sleepless nights,and gloomy afternoons over this. I s he escaping in his work? He says he is only sad ,when he meets with the drug addict son,or any of the the problems, but he never thinks about it ,when he is not here. \So,he can totally switches off... Well ,he is sexually impotent,and works his ''waking times'' away. I feel concerned,that he might be an emotionally strange man. Who blocks his emotions,and lives in lies. What do you think?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2009):

does he leave home to go to work for these long periods? If so then I'm sorry but he could be having an affair. I once hid a voice-activated dictaphone in my faithful, hard working, impotent husband's car. When he came back home later, I snuck out to retrieve it and later listened to it and this is what I heard, "hi baby, I am coming to fuck you". If he works at home then I am glad to be wrong.

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