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anonymous
writes:Hi everyone, I met this gorgeous guy online 6 months ago. We ended up meeting up and we had sex. We talked and laughed the night away after sex and it was great. He called me back the next day and then when I tried to call him back he did not answer. Since then I have not tried to call him or anything. I have not been thinking about him either but he has just popped back in my mind. I keep having a strong urge to call him. My question is this, Should I follow my instincts, call this guy, and risk humiliating myself? or should I leave things how they were left and ignore my feeling to call him? Reply to this Question
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (14 November 2013):
 I'd forget the entire incident and get on with my life....
By-the-by, you humiliated yourself that fateful night... when you removed your underwear.....
Good luck....
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reader, Daisy_Daisy  +, writes (14 November 2013):
 If you already tried calling him with no reply then I would drop it, especially if you'd feel humiliated by a negative (or no) reaction. Presumably he saw a missed call from you and ignored it - I don't think he's interested I'm afraid.
Some people just want a one night stand, some hypocritically lose respect for a woman after a sex on a first date, or he could be dating someone else. So don't take it personally.
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reader, llifton +, writes (14 November 2013):
 why not call him? it's not like you'll look like a stalker lol. after all, it's been six months since you've spoken. and you won't look desperate or anything; you didn't obsessively contact him after you hooked up. he called you and then you called him back. that was it.
i say go for it. give him a call. if you never hear back from him after that, then let it go, as it was a proper one-night-stand. good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2013): Were you talking for 6 months and then met up recently for sex? Or did you have sex 6 months ago? I'm a little confused on the timing here. He DID try to reach you right afterward so it made sense to call back and leave a message. If it's been a week, I would suggest texting him or leaving another message and then leave it alone. It DOES sound like NSA sex to me too.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (14 November 2013):
 If you had sex and didn't hear from him in 6 months? I wouldn't call.
Obviously he was looking for some NSA sex and he got it. IF he was interested in MORE sex or you as a person he would have gotten back in touch a LONG time ago.
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