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Should I return the favour?

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Question - (21 January 2012) 3 Answers - (Newest, 22 January 2012)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

My female first cousin who is 30 and single and myself who is a single 28 year old male have been very close friends since we were little kids. We talk all the time and pretty much tell each other everything. Well last week we were out on my pontoon boat just enjoying the sun on the river when my cousin admitted to me that she had a fantasy about going down on me! I was a little shocked by it but at the same time I was kinda turned on. I kinda jokingly asked her what she was waiting for...we both laughed and she then got up and knelt down in front of me, pulled my swim shorts down and started to give me oral. It felt so good that it really clouded my judgement as to what was actually going on. After about 10 minutes I finished and just then river patrol showed up behind us . We had drifted into an area of the river that was not authorized for recreational boats so we were escorted back to the dock. Never really got a chance to talk afterwards or anything. We have talked since and everything seems just the way it was. I think we are gonna go back out and do some fishing next week and I kinda wanna return the favor and go down on her out there. What do you all think? Should I just let go what happened and write it up to a spur of the moment thing or what? If I should pursue it, any suggestions on how to go about it? I know 1st cousin sex is taboo for some so if you don't agree with it, dont bother typing those comments please.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2012):

I liked your final remark that if somebody has a problem with you not to bother typing. If this is just recreation, then it's your business. But if you think this could lead to love and marriage, then there are kids to think about. On that point you may catch a lot of flack, mostly irrational.

Against that possibility, here is a reference on cousin marriages.

An Association between Kinship and Fertility of Human Couples Agnar Helgason et al. SCIENCE vol. 329 no. 5864 February 8, 2008 page 813 - 816

You can get it at sciencemag.org for a few bucks or if you are like me and don't like spending money the whole issue is discussed ad nauseam on nobabies.net. And it's free.

I think you'll find the bottom line is that biologically speaking first cousins are probaly a bit close. The best match for number of children and grandchildren is proabably about third of fouth, although it's not that simple. Complete strangers are a very bad idea indeed, and that's what everybody is doing. So good luck. I would say get the facts before making decisions. Don't take my word; go to the source.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2012):

well to be honest with you it might be taboo but it aint illegal so my advice to you is go for it

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A female reader, Aithers1845 United Kingdom +, writes (21 January 2012):

Aithers1845 agony auntBearing in my mind she is your cousin i wouldn't do anything, because after all she is family. It was wrong what she did in the first place as well. Don't do anything is my advice, it wouldn't be smart and it's not healthy.... but if you want to then do.

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