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writes:I have been dating my girlfriend for almost 2 years now(our 2 year is in about 20ish days). we go to different colleges and its our first time in a long distance relationship. she recently told me she cheated on me with another guy at school last semester(which was probably a couple months ago)but she was really apologetic and cried on the phone to me. i know she is telling the truth because this was just so out of her character and i was completely shocked. she said that she didn't know why she would do such a thing and that it would never happen again. i always do my best as a boyfriend. i call her on a very regular basis, im loyal, i give her space if she needs it and i never push her to do anything that she doesn't feel like doing. she knows that im good to her and she told me that she felt so bad for ruining her relationship that was so good. she said that she felt lonely and it just sort of happened.i really want to forgive her but i guess i'm just so scared now. she's my first serious girlfriend and i've never had to deal with anything like this in my life. i feel devastated and can hardly hold myself together at this point. i dont want to break up with her but i dont really know how to deal with this. should i try to stay with her and forget about a mistake she made? ive always felt like she didn't put enough effort into our relationship but i can never tell her how i feel about the things that make me unhappy. i dont want her to worry or have doubts. i guess im really a pushover around her...i really need some advice at this point. it would really help
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