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writes:Hi,I really fancy this girl at work who works near me but I don't have to speak to her about anything regarding my job. Been in my job 5 months and basically didn't speak to her until a work night out recently. I had a few drinks and flirted quite strongly, and to be fair she responded.The vibes I've had from her in the office since have been good but the open plan office means I daren't do too much flirtation. I'm thinking of either waiting for the next work night and hoping I chat to her, or making up an excuse to talk to her in work i.e. say that I need an induction on her department and really interested blah blah. But worried that she might think that a bit creepy.Usually I'm against work relationships but as my job is pressured; meeting people and relaxing outside work is hard.Any thoughts?J.
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reader, Blitzbull  +, writes (8 March 2010):
In my personal opinion, most of my relationships have worked for the best when I'm just open and frank about how I feel. Instead of making an excuse to see her, when you get a minute of spare time, ask her out to some coffee or something. This will give you two more time to feel each other out. If you have feelings for her just be willing to put yourself out there for it, you'll either be rewarded for it, or you'll realize that it wasn't meant to work out.
That's my 2 cents anyways,
D.
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