Should I pursue??? Am I being used ?? Does he just need a green card?

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I met a guy at a wedding we danced talked and go each others number then he went to were he was visiting which is 7 hours away. And hes here on a visa which means he only has about a month left but i cant go see him but hes trying to come down soon. We hit it off from the start such chemistry. I dont want him to go back ive meber felt like that before by just instanyly Looking at someone and feeling a connection. We have beem talking and its been amazing he only speaks spanish but its okay because im mexican american so i speak both. I dont tend to be attracted to mexicans but theres something about him all my ex bfs have beem muslim. But this guy hes so different so respectful treats you and makes you feel special. Im not worried about my family thinking we are taking things to fast or thinking he might be leading me on. He isnt poor like they would think he has a new bmw and i know he has money so what can he gain from me. My family says he might just want a green card. Hes planning on returning when he leaves this month and returning in march with a visa. Before meeting me he said he wasnt planning on returning but did he like it here am i his way out? Is it real or am i being used? Do i continue to pursue?

View related questions: money, muslim, my ex, wedding

Reply to this Question

Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A female reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (11 December 2015):

1 2 3 4 5

<-- Rate this answer

A male reader, Denizen  +, writes (3 December 2015):

1 2 3 4 5

<-- Rate this answer