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age
41-50,
*raigjjb
writes:I have been with my fiance for more than four years and was due to be married next year. I have been searching for a new career and decided I want to join the army. She will end the relationship if I join because she doesnt want to be on her own for long and wont move away from her family. Should I persue a career that is best for the future or stay with the woman i love in a job i hate?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (17 February 2008):
 Which is your priority , career or fiance?
Sorry , you will have to choose .
Which one will will make you happy?
Only you can answer that question.
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reader, MIss_congeniality +, writes (17 February 2008):
 HI, This is a very difficult question.First of all i would just like to say no matter how much you love someone you shouldn't miss an oppurtunity which you want so badly.The other thing is that if this lady really loves you has much has she would hate it she would tell you that she would be there for you no matter what, that is what love is supposed to be about, commitment and support. Your obviously not getting the support you need, she may love you but she shouldnt make you choose between something you want to do, then her. She should be saying that she wil miss you but will support your wishes. Just because you are going to the army it doesnt mean that she will never see you again.My advise i can only give you is follow your heart, but dont be forced into choosing, make the descion yourself.If you want this job so much go for it, if she loved you she would accept the fact that you have chosen a new career because you want the best for your family and cannot get that from a job you hate.Hope this helps a little bit feel free to message me !
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